TMI. T. M. I
By Betsy on Apr 8, 2010 in News
“”I fall in love easily, but there’s a difference between being in love and being in a loving relationship. ‘In love’ is infatuation. ‘Love’ is when that love dies down and you’re just there. The burning volcano stops erupting, the lava gets cold. And I’m close to that for sure.” – Shia on Carey
the burning volcano stops erupting, the lava gets cold. lol so that’s what they were doing with those make your own volcano kits. whatever shia. be happy.
shizzyshiz | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
I didn’t know he was so dumb. LOL!
a fan | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
seriously, I really wish she would die.
I’m not even kidding.
a fan | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
this is so cute. hate all you want, they are adorable together! true fans stick with their boy/girl thru thick and thin. as true fans we should all be happy for shia.
sharey ftw! <333
stephanie | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
why would I be happy for someone I don’t know? maybe he’s an ass in real life. true fans don’t care about the actors personal life.
Scarey | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
“Volcano STOPS erupting the lava gets COLD and I AM close to that for sure”
so is shia saying his love for carey is dying slowly little by little ?
someone enlightened me
#3 thats not cool you dont wish a death onsomeone and why do you care about her so much you called shia white trash
shiafan | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
LMFAO LOVE THAT PIC
Mel | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
yeah, that was mean.
have a nice day, Shiantologists. you’re all just pathetic.
a fan | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
I’m sorry, Shiafan.
I should die instead of her.
a fan | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
white trash?! sounds like that poster named Yo Sista over there on the Just Jared board. they must have run her off, so she came on over here to spread her love…of hate. LMAO whats the matter boo?! u bored? un-fuckin-believable! bitch please! u dont have to like carey (alot of us dont), but u aint gotta hate on shia if u are a so called fan. he doesnt always say the right things (obviously), but hes only 23, still human & still trying to figure shit out. so calm the fuck down & quit flooding the board with your ignorant ass shit! please & thank u…that is all
rollin | Apr 8, 2010 | Reply
he was probably trying to be well spoken and sound more articulate…. fail. but what i thought he meant was: after it cools, and forms a crust so you can lay back and get cosy and comfortable ..like an electric blanket?
since new love can be a bit jittery, not knowing much of the other persons opinions, how far you can push boundaries etc etc..
and thennnn, it gets cold. and you either dump them or youre just too elderly to get it up anymore
sigh | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
I should have taken the warning seriously!
Sigh.
layla alvar | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
There is more to the interview:
‘I’ve said this before, women are a vice to me. But that was a different time in my life. I have a problem trusting people and I never wanted to date an actress, but you can’t plan for this. It smacks you in the face, and everything I thought I knew, I didn’t know, so I’m just learning again. It’s great, it’s amazing. I was really lonely before, a really dark dude. I still am, but I’m better. I think love is my favourite hobby, for sure.’
layla alvar | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
“”I fall in love easily, but there’s a difference between being in love and being in a loving relationship. ‘In love’ is infatuation. ‘Love’ is when that love dies down and you’re just there. The burning volcano stops erupting, the lava gets cold. And I’m close to that for sure.” – Shia on Carey
awww this reminds me of my boyfriend and I, we are in such a loving relationship. I never expected him and I to get together, I said that I would never date anyone at the office, but things happen like a slap in the face, whoa. We have been together for over six months. I am so lucky I used to be lonely but not anymore. God I love my boyfriend
Sorry this thread just had me want to post this. Thanks Shia for the quotes and the people here to post this.
BTW my other post did not show up so I had to rewrite it going off of memory.
Hi_everyone | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
white trash.
not a fan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
#15 . Miz_Bavarian_Pretzel ! you’re really pathetic
oh~ | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
you’re pathetic, you little bastard.
get a life. stop fucking around with innoncent people.
not a fan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
He seemed to need new- relationship to ease his loneliness.
e | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
*PUKE*.
Lolaframologia | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
Just hope shia is happy
Ash | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
WTF??? !!!! Stop to barf on Shia and Carey…
you’re only jealous of his relation with Carey or what?
ShiaCrazyFan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
To #15 is number 2 and 3 “Miz_Bavarian_Pretzel” as well, I remember when she was on IMDB she used to write shit like this there.
Also, this thread on here makes me so sick to my stomach. Eeeekkk.
So now is Shia going to move to NYC cause Carey feels more comfortable there?
Now are they going to get married seeing how Shia can’t stop talking about his “dying love” for Carey?
If he is so much in love then why does he still have a bit of loneliness in him.
I know he has lost so many fans cause of this entire Carey thing. Not too many people are happy with Shia’s decision.
I want to know what will happen to this site when these two get married, I have a feeling that their marriage is going to be very soon the way that Shia is talking, awww so cute…..puke.
Ja! | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
P.S here is what others are saying about this pretzel woman on the Shia IMDB board:
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0479471/board/flat/160672002
Ja! | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
“Volcano STOPS erupting the lava gets COLD and I AM close to that for sure”
so is shia saying his love for carey is dying slowly little by little ?
someone enlightened me
What I get from this is that Shia is saying that to be in love the love dies and cools off like lava in a volcano, maybe this is what happened to him and China his ex.
But with Carey he is not in love, he is in a loving relationship and he thinks that to be in a loving relationship that the love never dies. I am guessing that Shia is trying to say that there is a huge difference between the two and he is trying to point out that his love for Carey has never “cooled” off like it may have with his first love. Someone please correct me if I am wrong but this is my view point of this issue. Thank you
As for the marrige thing, yeah he is 23 very young but it sounds as if he hates so much to be lonely and he may just ask Carey for her hand in marriage so he will not be feeling the untra loneliness that he did before Carey. So by this summer these two can very well be enaged.
As for him moving to NYC again Shia said he does not want to be so lonely so I think that he will do anything that this girl wants him to do.
I know I wish that this site would post super good news, that Shia is single again, but he seems to be co-dependant on a woman. So don’t hold your breath.
Logic | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
# 24 thanks for the respond but i dont get why he said he is “heading” that way ” FOR SURE” when the “lava gets cold?” it seems as if he’s saying the love he has for carey will soon die and forgoten since he is heading that way LOL
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
Shia LaBeouf and Jon Voight became friends because they were “two lonely dudes” with “no family”.
http://entertainment.stv.tv/showbiz/168920-shia-labeoufs-voight-bond/
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
Love vs Infatuation
Differences in effects of separation
Infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. Separation in both emotions causes great pain but infatuation may get weak and cause the feeling to lessen over time. Love develops more with time and separation.
http://www.diffen.com/difference/Infatuation_vs_Love
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
Shia got into the business (Acting) to please his father, here is the entire article:
http://entertainment.stv.tv/showbiz/168920-shia-labeoufs-voight-bond/
NEWS | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
Shia fan I am so sorry I did not see your post before I posted the article SO sorry for duplicate,hun.
NEWS | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
@29 no prob lol
Love vs infatuation
Differences in Feelings
Infatuation feels like being in love but it is not. The intensity of the emotion is strong but not pure enough like love.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. Love is always associated with connection between two souls that goes beyond the self. Infatuation may make the other person selfish if the opposite person’s reaction isn’t the same. Infatuation isn’t pure like love and may be accompanied by lust. It goes about thinking about oneself and not the other person.
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
i hate the analogy he uses for love & do not agree with it one bit. couples strive to keep that flame burning & sometimes seek counseling to rekindle it. if u werent in love, why be in a relationship in the first place? he obviously enjoys her company which is all i can get out of the excerpt. his views on love seem warped to me, but hes still young. he also said love is his favorite hobby. like what? painting toilette seats, skeet shooting, & online trading?! if u fall in love (become infatuated as he put it) easily, u are pretty much walking on egg shells in relationship. infatuation is how it all starts to begin with, does it not? unless u are die hard/strong enough to stay committed, the whole thing remains in a vulnerable position. but im glad hes not as lonely & dark as he used to be
rollin | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
#22. I have a feeling they’ll break up soon
ann | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
you people need to relax, he he said that the love dies down, it means that after the first moments the passion gets calmer and in turns into love.
he was in love with Craey and now they are moving to a loving relationship, this is turning into a mature relationship and adult romance, not some silly and fast passion.
I think he is in a great place in his life
julien | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
I think that he is in love big time. I think that he is going to marry Carey, I think that we will read about this in the People mag in the next few months. As for him moving to NYC well he does have a place there so why not. Love makes you do so many wild things.
It seems that every time we get our hopes up that Shia and Carey broke up there seems to be something more and more about how he has fallen deeper for this woman. So this is where I come up with my thought on the marriage thing.
Carey seems to be in love with him too.
What ever the case is, sadly it is what it is, it is reality and there is nothing that we can do about him being in such passionate love for this woman, nothing at all.
Best advice I have for everyone is either be happy for him that he may have found his life long soul mate or just move on to an actor who does want to stay single.
Those are the facts jack
Paused | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
31 agree he still learning and young so give the a chance and kinda feel sorry for carey because it sounds the flame will stop burning yikes!!
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
Marriage?? really? i think they’re going to be together for long time but i dont think they will be married any time soon you people jump too far!!
anywayz my opnion
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
its the WAY he said it 33. i dont equate being in love with lust or a fling. relationships die off when passion dies down. i understand what he tried to say, it just came out weird. hes close to settling in a comfort zone or about to move on to the next stage. ppl break up when they are no longer with the other person. my argument is that there is a difference between infatuation & love. love/in love/loving relationship/lover etc…u cant stray too far from a word with the same pre-fix. oh shit, im getting technical now. but i know what he meant, im just pointing out the fallacy in his statement just for a fun debate. its really not that serious! lol
rollin | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
*no longer in love with the other person…thats whats missing in post 37. sorry for the mistype
rollin | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
i gotcha LOL i know what you mean but what do you think about the marriage comments???
do you believe they will be married soon?
i dont
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
sorry @ 38
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
marriage? he seems to be growing & coming into his own & still has some personal demons to overcome. i personally think the thought of marriage would be foolish at this time. hes smart & mature for his age, but sometimes he still sounds like a little boy with the things he says (especially after his views on love, imo) hes taking his time, so it seems, & thats a good thing. hes figuring out to trust again & carey is only his 2nd serious girlfriend hes had @ age 23. hes a gemini, and they tend to go thru many partners in life whether its a long or short relationship. lol
rollin | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
41 that is what i thought! thanks for responding
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
http://www.buzzfoto.com/2010/04/outofsightmediahenry-flores/shia-shops-down-and-up/
goya | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
What does everyone think, is this Shia and Carey bullshit relationship going to last much longer?
Is he going to move to NYC for her?
How much longer do you guess that this thing will go on(the relationship)?
Finally, why do you think that Shia has let himself go so bad more so than any other year?
Come on someone out there answer these questions,
PLEASE ANSWER, PLEASE ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bottom_line | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
#44 i think that he is sad. i think that he is so depressed that is why he has not cleaned up well. you can talk all the shit you want but it certainly does not show with shia. i see so much pain in his eyes. i think that there is something really “fishy” about this relationship. i think that he looked happier with china, sorry but i do. why is carey trying to get shia to move to nyc? also i came across this post on imdb and if you go by with this person said i have to say that how can shia be really enjoying love when he is used to be sad.
this is what that post said about shia and sadness: (btw if anyone else cares to throw in their comment and opinion about this please do so) i really wish that shia would open up more like this recent article cause it shows how humble he is and how he does not want to conform to hollywood’s standards by saying stupid bullshit, this is the real shit, i hope to read more stuff like this from shia, not just the sad shit but real stuff his true self. i fear that carey may take that away from him. another, of many reasons i hope they break up very soon
by janeplay (Fri Apr 9 2010 09:59:36)
I posted something in the ‘Shia’s Untrusting or Untrusting Shia’ (One of those) thread that said (in not so many words) basically what Shia’s saying here (That’s kinda cool).
Shia is someone who finds more pleasure in sadness than joy and that’s because sadness is more real to him and it’s all he’s known. On top of that, he’s a thinker and his thoughts go really deep.
Everything Shia shows the media is coming from his Representative. Only in these rare moments do we catch a glimpse of the true person Shia Labeouf (that’s me being poetic! lol)
But I guess it’s hard to be the kind of person he is in a place like Hollywood, (especially being as ‘in demand’ as he is). Shia would be very misunderstood. And you know, he’s gotta be ‘edible to alot of people.’ (that’s what he said)
People may dislike Shia as an actor, but he has a likeability factor.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0479471/board/flat/160686301?d=160688992#160688992
shaky | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
when & where did shia say he was going to move to nyc?! can we stay on subject please? carey just said the papz were easier to deal with in ny than la. if she cant take the heat…throw in the towel, get outta the business, & get the fuck out the kitchen! she didnt want the pressure of SUCCESS & doesnt want to be a leading lady?! FINE…take a back seat, sit down, & shut the fuck up! this is why we get stuck with paris hiltons, kim kardashians, lindsey lohans, & other talentless hacks thrown in our faces. its not like her movies make bank & puts asses in cinema seats anyway, even with critical acclaim! geez…shes a smart chick, but she urks the shit outta me! lol
rollin | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
LOL rollin i agree but i never heard an actor or an actress say they dont want to be in leading roles isnt that what every actor wants? to be center of the movie so they can be noticed for their acting ability or whatever?? and i have said this before.
shiafan | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
yeah, i agree. who the fuck doesnt want the lead?! not every supporting role is oscar worthy, its the performance of the actress that makes it oscar worthy. all ive seen her do is pout & whine across the screen for 2 hours. shes been compared to audrey hepburn, shirley mcclain, twiggy, mia farrow…everyone except her own identity which is fucking lame. and she looks waaaay older than 24. like i said before, i am not a fan of hers. but anyway, never understood the hype but to each their own.
rollin | Apr 9, 2010 | Reply
hummm, real actors? Carey doesnt want to be a movie star, she wants to be a serious actress, she prefers to do small parts that are really good, than to do bad leading roles.
Shia was not the leading actor in A Guide to Recognizing Your Saints, yet that was better than all his leading roles in Transformers and Eagle Eye.
Stop being jealous just because she is dating Shia, she is a good person and Shia is happy.
julien | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
i dont give a flying fuck if she dates shia. read my previous posts & u will see i acknowledge & respect that they are together. colin farrell, angelina jolie, scarlett johanssen, brad pitt, drew barrymore, etc. there are alot of movie stars who are great and REAL actors…some are more popular than others. in an ensemble cast there is no lead, only principals like in AGTRYS. she seems to be having trouble dealing with fame & tho she is good i dont think she is ALL THAT! so on that note, i would appreciate if u would stop putting words in my mouth. i gave an honest critique, & im just not a fan. i dont know her personally & i dont give a fuck tbh. as far as her acting is concerned…blah. and there u go Julien. PEACE
rollin | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
I have to agree with Rollin (#50)!!! Don’t run off Rollin, I like reading your post!!!
I also agree that Shia is with Carey and that there is nothing that we can fucking do about it.
Paused | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
I think Carey meant that she rather do a small great role than just get the leading roles, even if they arent that good.
She was lead in Education and she is the lead in her next film NEVER LET ME GO, I dont think she is afraid to be a star, she seems to be handling very well, she is such lady.
Several stars do this, like Brad Pitt for example, he is always best in small roles than in his big leading roles.
anyway, I have no doubt that she is gonna be a huge star, she is so talented and inteligent.
sara | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
i think carey comes across as a sweetheart and i am a sucker for several of the bbc miniseries she’s been apart of.
her sudden fame is a bit jarring and takes some getting use to.
but i can see how not everyone would be into her, she’s still kinda new to the acting game.
goya | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
and i still view carey & shia as two different people. not sharey or any of that other mess gossip columns come up with.
i think they are both doing an ok job with not shoving their relationship in the media.
goya | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
51 (paused), i aint goin nowhere! lol i LOVE a good debate! some smaller roles are better than the lead. i know what she meant. but a good role is a good role, big or small…it just depends on how the actor plays it & i dont think shes that strong of an actress compared to others. ive never been blown away by any of her performances…thats all im saying.
rollin | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
agreed 54. they are two different ppl, and i try to talk about them separately. they themselves dont shove the details of their relationship down our throats, the media does. its weird that all these excerpts from interviews are coming out now all of a sudden. seems like everyday, there is something new lately. but its better than nothing i guess! lol
rollin | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
its the wonky wall street promo
and the media is reaching since they won’t do the ‘red carpet’ thing.
but leave it to shia to overshare, he means well though
goya | Apr 10, 2010 | Reply
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